How Surrender Helps You Become More Peaceful & Loving

Sometimes I am asked: “You talk a lot about surrender. You talk a lot about letting go. Does this mean not doing anything? Does it mean not taking any responsibility?”



For every action that you take, for every action of ‘do-ing’ there is a moment that precedes that.

That moment is ‘Be-ing’.

That Be-ing comes through surrender.


Surrender is about letting go of your thoughts.

It is about letting go of your emotions.

It is about letting go of the drama to which you have bound yourself.


Surrender helps you release the stress, the anxiety, the fear, the doubts you are holding on to.

It doesn’t mean that you are abdicating responsibility.

Rather, it means that in that moment, you are completely present.

You are not tied up in something that happened in the past.

Nor are you running ahead into the future.


You are present.

You are here.

You are.


And as you surrender, as you let go, as you allow yourself to fully be in this moment:

That is when a miracle happens.


You realise you are alive.

Truly alive.

You realise that you are connected to the Divine. To that which is so much bigger than you.

You realise that whatever you have been experiencing, whatever pain or drama you have been going through:

It has a beginning.

And more importantly, for you, perhaps, it has an end.


As you surrender, as you let go, you receive guidance from the Universe.

You receive guidance from Source, from Spirit, from God.

You receive guidance on the steps, the actions and the directions to take to help you through the situation.


To help you heal the pain.

To help you see that there is another way.


Surrender is the path to salvation.

It is the path to resolution.

It is the path to vibrating at the Highest.

It is the path to Unconditional Love.


By surrendering, you put aside your ego.

By surrendering, you give the Universe permission to help you.

By surrendering, you choose to heal. You choose to resolve a situation by approaching it from the Highest vibration.

You choose to forgive.

You choose to let go.

You choose to give and receive Love.


For every thought, for every word and every deed that comes through surrender is Unconditional Love.

Unconditional Love is a vibration so pure, so profound, so magnificent that it heals not only you and other people.

It heals the situation.

It heals the world.


About Alexandra

Affectionately called “Goddess” by her readers and listeners, Alexandra is author of Secrets to Divine Awakenings, a book for men and women on how to return to one’s pure, sacred, eternal self. By weaving together personal stories, Divine Inspiration and Wisdom from the Universe, Alexandra invites everyone to Live an Inspired Life, filled with Love, Joy and Peace. Each week, she posts on her website and sends out a newsletter on Living an Inspired Life.


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