Giving All Of Your Self

When you are in a relationship, do you give all of your self?


Or do you hold back?


Do you hold back your emotions, your feelings or your affections?


Do you hold back telling the other person how you really feel?


Do you hold back and bite your tongue instead of speaking your truth?


Do you hold back your love?




Is it because of fear?


Fear is the biggest reason why people hold back in relationships.


Fear of not being loved for who you are.


Fear of being judged.


Fear of giving so much and not receiving the same in return.


Fear of being hurt…again.


Truth is there is nothing anyone can ever do that can take away from who you truly are.


You are Divine Perfection.


Yes, you.


Regardless of how you look, where you come from or what you have done.


You are perfect…just as you are.


When you give all of your self, do you give with the expectation that you will receive something in return?


Or do you give for the sheer joy of giving?


For the love of Be-ing?


For simply Be-ing.


When you give all of your self without expectation, without attachment, that is when you experience Unconditional Love.


Love that has no conditions attached to it.


Love that is absolute.


Love that is Pure. Profound. Divine.


Have you experienced such Love?


And yes, it does exist.


It exists in every relationship.


And it begins… with you.


So the next time you are with someone, give all of your self.


Without conditions. Without expectations. Without attachments.


Without judgement. Without agenda. Without fear.


And watch what happens.



Even after all this time

The sun never says to the earth

“You owe me”

Look what happens with a love like that

It lights the whole sky


Attributed to Hafiz


About Alexandra

Affectionately called “Goddess” by her readers and listeners, Alexandra is author of Secrets to Divine Awakenings, a book for men and women on how to return to one’s pure, sacred, eternal self. By weaving together personal stories, Divine Inspiration and Wisdom from the Universe, Alexandra invites everyone to Live an Inspired Life, filled with Love, Joy and Peace. Each week, she posts on her website and sends out a newsletter on Living an Inspired Life.


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